LORD, create in me a new heart and renew my spirit within me. LORD, reveal unto me where my attitude and thoughts are not what you would have them to be, especially toward my (wife). LORD,convict me when I AM bitter and help me to forgive so that I will not resent my woman when she desires my special attention. LORD, do not allow confusion to hold a place in my mind, and if there is ANY behavior in me that needs to change, restore my strength and enable me to make lasting adjustments. Whatever you reveal unto me, I will confess unto YOU as sin. Mold me and make me a man after YOUR own heart and empower me to be the head of my home and family just as YOU have created me to be.